Unfortunately, the lists given in 1Timothy 3, Titus 1, and 1Peter 5 are often viewed by some as "disqualifications" despite being typically referenced as "qualifications." This usually belies the intent and purpose with which they are viewed. Such ought not to be the case. That being said, these qualifications are crucial to selecting the right men to this important responsibility.
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
- Philippians 4:6-7