Unfortunately, the lists given in 1Timothy 3, Titus 1, and 1Peter 5 are often viewed by some as "disqualifications" despite being typically referenced as "qualifications." This usually belies the intent and purpose with which they are viewed. Such ought not to be the case. That being said, these qualifications are crucial to selecting the right men to this important responsibility.
“He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain. Like one from whom people hide their faces he was despised, and we held him in low esteem. Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted.”
- Isaiah 53:3-4